As we are going to use libuv outside of the netmgr, we need the shims to
be readily available for the rest of the codebase.
Move the "netmgr/uv-compat.h" to <isc/uv.h> and netmgr/uv-compat.c to
uv.c, and as a rule of thumb, the users of libuv should include
<isc/uv.h> instead of <uv.h> directly.
Additionally, merge netmgr/uverr2result.c into uv.c and rename the
single function from isc__nm_uverr2result() to isc_uverr2result().
Previously, there was a single per-socket write timer that would get
restarted for every new write. This turned out to be insufficient
because the other side could keep reseting the timer, and never reading
back the responses.
Change the single write timer to per-send timer which would in turn
reset the TCP connection on the first send timeout.